Learn The Polite Behavior In America You Should Instill In Your Children And Family

By Leslie Ball


Having the right manners and a good behavior is an aspect that is highly desired by many people. Politeness is one of the virtues that is advocated for and observed especially in the American society. It is very bad for you to behave in a rude manner either in public places or in interpersonal interactions. People with polite behavior in America find it easy to get along with their counterparts in all spheres and fields.

You notice that many parents will depend upon the teachers to help them out when it comes to correcting children. This is not followed at home and this makes the kid have a poor behavior. Moreover, many business partners have characteristics that are not pleasing and this may bother clients so much.

One of the well-mannered or courteous actions is saying hello to the people that you meet. This means that you should greet people appropriately with your bright smiles on your face. When greeting others, you should maintain a good eye contact and shake their hands firmly. Depending on the level of friendship you have with people, you can go ahead and hug them or even pat their back and shoulders.

Another desirable behavior is that of being a good listener. Most of the people do not understand that they should speak less but listen more. Whenever you meet a friend, you should be ready to listen to them instead of being the one always talking. Your partner might feel inferior and unappreciated if you do not take time to listen to their side of the story.

Using courteous words such as thank you and please is very important in maintaining cordial relationships with others. Always ensure that you acknowledge the contribution or input of others towards you. If you want to ask for something, you should always say please before you ask. You also need to know what to say when someone offers you something. If you do not want it, you should say no thank you and if you want it, you should say yes please.

You realize that those people who are courteous will always congratulate you in case you have succeeded in anything in life. It is not good when you are envious of someone of your colleagues when they are promoted to jobs. If you find your friend has upgraded her hairstyle, it is important that you use cool words to keep her in a good mood. This will mean a lot to the life of that person.

At the work place, many Americans will opt to treat their employees and employers in a good way. This will make them earn respect from their colleagues. Everyone in an organization contributes well in his or her own way, it is hence important that you appreciate each and every one.

Finally, you will observe the Americans and notice that they immediately apologize for their mistakes. More than this, they will also apologize for your mistakes as well. You will not find them defending the mistakes they committed but will quickly acknowledge them and apologize. If you wrong them, they will feel sorry about it even before you have apologized. This is the culture you should cultivate in your children, family members, friends and in you as well.




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Learn The Polite Behavior In America You Should Instill In Your Children And Family

By Leslie Ball


Having the right manners and a good behavior is an aspect that is highly desired by many people. Politeness is one of the virtues that is advocated for and observed especially in the American society. It is very bad for you to behave in a rude manner either in public places or in interpersonal interactions. People with polite behavior in America find it easy to get along with their counterparts in all spheres and fields.

You notice that many parents will depend upon the teachers to help them out when it comes to correcting children. This is not followed at home and this makes the kid have a poor behavior. Moreover, many business partners have characteristics that are not pleasing and this may bother clients so much.

One of the well-mannered or courteous actions is saying hello to the people that you meet. This means that you should greet people appropriately with your bright smiles on your face. When greeting others, you should maintain a good eye contact and shake their hands firmly. Depending on the level of friendship you have with people, you can go ahead and hug them or even pat their back and shoulders.

Another desirable behavior is that of being a good listener. Most of the people do not understand that they should speak less but listen more. Whenever you meet a friend, you should be ready to listen to them instead of being the one always talking. Your partner might feel inferior and unappreciated if you do not take time to listen to their side of the story.

Using courteous words such as thank you and please is very important in maintaining cordial relationships with others. Always ensure that you acknowledge the contribution or input of others towards you. If you want to ask for something, you should always say please before you ask. You also need to know what to say when someone offers you something. If you do not want it, you should say no thank you and if you want it, you should say yes please.

You realize that those people who are courteous will always congratulate you in case you have succeeded in anything in life. It is not good when you are envious of someone of your colleagues when they are promoted to jobs. If you find your friend has upgraded her hairstyle, it is important that you use cool words to keep her in a good mood. This will mean a lot to the life of that person.

At the work place, many Americans will opt to treat their employees and employers in a good way. This will make them earn respect from their colleagues. Everyone in an organization contributes well in his or her own way, it is hence important that you appreciate each and every one.

Finally, you will observe the Americans and notice that they immediately apologize for their mistakes. More than this, they will also apologize for your mistakes as well. You will not find them defending the mistakes they committed but will quickly acknowledge them and apologize. If you wrong them, they will feel sorry about it even before you have apologized. This is the culture you should cultivate in your children, family members, friends and in you as well.




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